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Craig Harper is Australia's leading
motivational speaker
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sought-after corporate coach and is considered to be
a leader and pioneer in the areas of personal and
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on numerous continents over the last twenty years
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In part oneof this post we discussed the tendency some of us have to allow situations, circumstances, events and even other people to control our lives; in essence, giving away our power in an attempt to be accepted, valued, appreciated and loved. By trying to "fit in and not make waves" (as someone shared with me recently) it seems that some of us have lost our identity and sense of self. The good news is that we can take back control of our life and still be that kind, generous and thoughtful person - who also happens to be strong, confident, assertive, productive, successful and powerful. And no, we don't need to compromise our beliefs, goals, character or core values to do so. In fact, taking back our power can be the most important step towards living a life of true purpose, alignment (with our core values), integrity and joy.
While the following strategies are very effective, they are not always comfortable or easy to implement, so it's a good thing that you and I are all about doing what works - not what's easy! Not every point will be relevant for every person, so see what resonates for you. Also be warned that I may be a little... er... blunt in places (surprising I know), so if you're feeling a bit presh you may wanna read from behind a cushion (like in a scary movie). Enjoy.
1. Stop looking for easy and start "doing" effective. Today. All too often our desire to live a comfortable, painless, easy and safe existence (all things driven by fear) is the very thing that kills our potential, our productivity, our ability to develop and ultimately, our spirit. It is no coincidence that we (the society) have both (1) a widespread aversion to anything that makes us uncomfortable and (2) a high percentage of people who regularly feel frustrated, unfulfilled, lost and miserable. Ironically, it is our aversion to working against resistance that stops us from growing, learning, evolving and adapting. Sometimes (in the moment) we believe it's simply easier to just "fit in", to compromise and to bite our tongue. While this is understandable on occasion, over the long term this kind of behaviour and thinking will set us up for unhealthy relationships, stagnation, disconnection, frustration, desperation and misery. In order to take back your power you will need to be courageous (that's a choice by the way), you will need to be prepared to get uncomfortable (that's where you learn, grow and adapt) and you will need to do things that may piss other people off - perhaps the ones who previously pulled your strings for their own gain.
2. Face your fears. You can never take back your power until you confront the things that scare you. By the way, being fearful does not represent weakness but rather humanity.
"Show me the person who fears nothing and I'll show you an idiot."
*There's also an argument that the person who fears nothing might also be the person who has reached enlightenment... but that's a discussion for another day.
If things only have the power and influence that we assign them (and they do), then fear is something we can control and use for our own personal development. For the most part fear is a completely personal thing. It's not about the situation, circumstance or environment but rather US in it; how we react to, process, cope with and interpret the events in our world. That's why we can see two people doing the exact same thing at the same time (a bungee jump for example); one is excited and having a great time, while the other is terrified and having the worst time ever. That's because it ain't about the jump; it's about the jumper. Keeping in mind that each jumper creates his or her own reality. Of course there are healthy fears - not wanting to swim with a shark for example - but what we're talking about here are those destructive and unhealthy fears that have been known to make people prisoners of their own mind. For a lifetime.
3. When nice isn't. (Nice)
Seek to be strong not nice. Too many nice people get chewed up and spat out because all they have is a bunch of "nice-ness" and zero personal power. Sometimes nice-ness is actually a euphemism for weakness and far too often our need to be seen as the "nice person" (oh please) is what brings us undone. Endeavouring to keep everyone in your world happy is an exercise in futility, frustration and exhaustion. And stupidity. In short, it can't be done. It's not your job to "make" people happy; it's your job to be you. And not the "you" that people want you to be, but rather, your authentic self. The one who has clarity, certainty, contentment and calm about who and what they are. And no, being you does not mean being selfish.
4. Stop being a victim.
The world isn't fair. The majority don't care about you or your issues. Shit happens. Bad things happen to good people. And lots of people are selfish and nasty. There; we've cleared that up. Now, stop seeking pity, attention and sympathy and get on with it. Stop having the same pointless discussions about the same issues, stop waiting to be "saved" and stop giving away your power. You don't need universal approval, acceptance or endorsement, you need a different attitude.
5. Win respect through your actions. Talk less, do more. What you do will tell the rest of us far more about who you are than any words that might come out of your mouth. Words are cheap and often meaningless. Most big talkers are just that. And nothing more.
6. Keep re-inventing yourself. Being stagnant and inflexible in a dynamic world is a sure-fire way to become redundant, unnecessary and powerless. While your core values, beliefs and standards might remain constant, it is important that you continue to adapt, learn, grow and develop with your ever-changing world.
7. Value yourself. Stop treating others as though they are of greater worth than you. Nobody is more important than anyone else. And nobody is more important than you. Nobody. This is not about having a massive ego or being self-righteous; it's about stopping all the self-sabotage. You know what I mean. It's about not rationalising mediocrity and failure any more. It's about changing your standards and your thinking. It's about not letting your poor self-esteem get in the way of your potential and your possibilities. It's about not letting your past become your future. In case you don't know or you haven't been told, I will tell you now; you are worthy, you are talented, you are good enough and you are powerful. More than you know. If you don't believe those words then you don't value yourself as you should.
*By the way, power and humility can go comfortably hand in hand.
8. Fiercely protect your brand. Don't associate with people, organisations, situations or products that will damage your reputation. In the professional world (where many of us spend a great deal of our lives) your brand is your power. The stronger your brand, the more power you have (in that world). Prospective employers, potential business associates and customers will all "buy what you're selling" based largely (if not solely) on their perception of you; your product, your service, your ability, your skill, your integrity and your value to them.
The Last Bit
I know that in my last post I said I'd be sharing ten strategies but I ended up amalgamating some of the points, so that's why we've ended up with eight. I'm not short-changing you... honest! Hope this instalment has been of some value to you. As always. I would appreciate your feedback on this post. The comments are important to me as it gives me some insight into the kinds of areas that you want me to explore... so don't be a stranger. Even you chronic Lurkers. Leave a comment by clicking on the link.
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