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This site is the website of motivational speaker Craig Harper. A constantly updated, one-stop information, inspiration, education and motivation station. Unlike many similar sites, it is a totally free resource for anyone who is serious about moving from mediocre to amazing in any area of their personal or professional life. With hundreds of articles covering a wide range of subject matter, great interviews with cool people and inspirational video posts, there's more than enough brain-food to keep you busy for hours. Okay, days!! Enjoy.


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Craig Harper is Australia's leading motivational speaker and educator (according to Google Australia). He is a highly sought-after corporate coach and is considered to be a leader and pioneer in the areas of personal and professional development.

Working with hundreds of teams, companies and a wide variety of organisations on numerous continents over the last twenty years has given Craig a unique insight into, and understanding of, human performance and all its variables. Craig has an ability to educate, inspire, challenge and make people laugh all at the same time!

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Tuesday, May 19, 2009
Taking Back Your Personal Power (Part 1)
But I know What's Best for You...

Do you ever feel like you're a mere pawn in someone else's game; a powerless player that is regularly used, abused and manipulated for the gain and self interest of others? Self interest that's often thinly disguised as some kind of action, decision or "plan" that's somehow in your best interest? Isn't it amazing how some people know what's best for their life and yours? If only you and I had the ability to think and choose for ourselves; things could be so different. Have you ever felt like your life (or part of your life) has been taken hostage by someone else's ego, insecurity and/or greed?

Welcome to a very large club.

Manipulators of the Masses

Perhaps you feel like you're trapped in some kind of on-going poker game where you're never dealt any decent cards. As a result you feel like you have no real power or leverage... just the occasional bluff. The truth is, knowingly or not, many of us have given away our personal power (or part thereof) and allowed situations, circumstances and other people to dictate, direct and control our reality for far too long. Some of us have let others tell us what we can do and what we can't do. What we should think. What we should believe. Where we can go. Who we should spend time with. Why we're here. What our future holds and even what our life purpose should be. And because on some level we all want acceptance, approval, connection, security and love (and a whole bunch more), far too often we compromise... and compromise... until we eventually lose the real "us" and become a simulated version of us; looks like you and me - but isn't.

Surrendering of Self

Clearly this "surrendering of self" - that is dreams, goals, ideas, values, beliefs (not to be confused with the Christian notion of "dying to self") - ain't a great personal strategy for my life or yours. So if it's all the same to you manipulators and self-centred control freaks, the rest of us will find our own life purpose, discover our own limits, explore our own potential and keep our personal power. Thanks anyway. Not.

"People can only take our personal power if we give it to them."

Being a humble, generous and occasionally selfless individual is to be admired and respected but being a person who has essentially handed over the reigns of their life is tragic, sad and ultimately terminal. Someone who has given away their personal power is a person who has given away control, hope and happiness.

"It's nice to be nice but it's stupid to be a doormat"

Some people confuse feelings with reality. Not "feeling" powerful doesn't necessarily equate to not "being" powerful. Unless we make it that. For the most part, feelings (read, fear) merely get in the way of our potential, personal power, growth and success. As a rule, our emotions and thoughts are in no way an indicator of our potential or the incredible future we might create and results we might produce if we should choose to use our power rather than give it away; as we have done in the past. Just because you don't "feel" powerful or consider yourself to be powerful doesn't mean that you're not or you can't be; it simply means you're denying your potential and buying into a fear mindset. A feeling is only a feeling and a thought is only a thought until you make them a reality; good or bad.

"Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure." Marianne Williamson

Just to Clarify...

I just re-read what I've written so far and I want to make a few things clear: (1) we give away our power - people can't take it without our permission (2) we allow people and things to have an unhealthy level of control and influence in our life (3) getting angry, bitter and/or resentful at others will fix nothing - although it's totally understandable (4) positive change starts with awareness, understanding and acknowledgement and (5) the situation will change when you change - and you can change any time you like. Now, is that me over-simplifying the complicated or you complicating the simple?

You decide.

The Last Bit...

Even as you read this right now, some of you might be rationalising your less-than-desirable existence and situation (1) to make yourselves feel better (thereby ignoring those buttons I just pushed) and (2) to avoid confronting the things you know you should deal with. My advice? STOP IT! Your world will change, when you do.

You have the ability, you have the understanding and you have the reasons - now find the courage.

Next time I will share ten proven practical strategies to help you shift your reality from power-less to power-ful.

Peace.

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